Fifth Sunday of Easter – C
May 18, 2025 5pm
Our Lady of Grace Parish, Parkton
“Love one another”
Today’s Gospel brings us into the Upper Room, just after Judas has departed to betray Jesus.
The mood is heavy. The disciples do not yet grasp what is unfolding.
And it is in this moment—this intimate, quiet moment between Jesus and His closest followers—in this moment He gives a new commandment: “Love one another. As I have loved you, so you also should love one another.”
This is not merely a suggestion. It is not just a moral ideal.
It is a commandment. And not just any commandment— Jesus says it is a “new” one.
“As I have loved you”
In the Old Testament, the people of God were already told to “love your neighbor as yourself”(Leviticus 19:18).
So, why does Jesus say, “I give you a new commandment”? What makes this “new”?
It is new in its measure: “As I have loved you.” Jesus doesn’t call us to love according to our own strength, our own convenience, or our own preferences.
Instead, He calls us to love as He loved. Completely. Sacrificially. Humbly. Unconditionally.
Let’s remember where Jesus is when He gives us this commandment: at the Last Supper, only hours before His crucifixion. He has just washed His disciples’ feet—a task normally reserved for the lowliest servant.
He knows that Peter will deny Him. He knows the others will flee.
He knows that Judas has just gone to betray Him. And still, His final instruction to them is: love each other with the same love I’ve shown you.
This is a love that even endures rejection, that serves even in suffering, that forgives even in betrayal, that is willing even to die. This is the newness in his commandment: to love “as I have loved you.”
“This is how all will know”
And then Jesus adds this: “This is how all will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
In our world today, we Christians are sometimes known for our doctrines, our traditions, even our debates. But Jesus tells us that the true sign of discipleship is love: as he has loved us.
1. Love Begins at Home
The first place to live out this commandment is at home.
Love must begin with our families—between spouses, between parents and children, between siblings. And this can be one of the most difficult places to practice this.
Because in our families, we are fully seen. Our flaws, our weaknesses, and our wounds all get exposed.
And yet, this is the first place where love must shine. When we listen and try to understand, when we forgive for a past hurt, when we are patient with idiosyncrasies – then we are doing as Jesus calls us to do.
So, let’s take time this week to ask ourselves: Is there some way that I need to love someone in my family better? Let’s begin there.
2. Love Beyond Our Comfort Zone
And then, we need to love those outside our comfort zone.
It’s easy to love those who are like us or think like us or treat us well. But what about those who disagree with us or are different from us on politics or religion or lifestyle?
Jesus loved the leper, the marginalized, the sinner, the stranger, even his opponents. So, let’s look around.
Is there someone with whom we are uncomfortable but is in some kind of need? As Catholics, as Christians, we must be known not for exclusion or judgment, but for loving as Christ has loved us, even going beyond our comfort zone.
Conclusion
So, Jesus’ new commandment is not just about feelings; it is a decision, a choice we make.
And it is by this love—by loving as he has loved, that the world will recognize Christ in us and know that we are Christians or Catholics. Today let’s renew our commitment to this, both at home and beyond our comfort zone.